As a baby
grows from tiny to child and later as teen, being a mama’s boy has lot of
advantages in terms of love and mollycoddling. But once past the teens
continuing as mama’s boy has in-built disadvantages. Here are the main
negatives:
1. Ability to make decision is the first
toll. As a mothers’ boy you get too attached to your mother and unable to make
independent decisions for even mundane matters where you are expected to do so
in solo manner
2. Your relationship with girls and women
get strained because you always compare the target person with your own mother.
This is severe in case where your mother is a good cook or at your beck and
call for attending to personal needs such as washing or ironing clothes. And lo
and behold she can always pick the matching tie and fitting cufflinks to go
with your shirt
3. You will find it cumbersome to be
neutral when there are conflicts between your mother and other women folks say
sisters, cousins, girlfriends and neighbours
4. In most cases mama’s boys are generally
well behaved. But we also find extremity. Some show high tendency to be macho
and few others display signs of being effeminate. The latter is evident especially
in skills in buying accessories and inner garments for ladies
5. in corollary to the above, mama’s boy
either shows unusual interest in affairs of women or simply turn out to be misogynistic
person
6. In general, mama’s boys speak in
commanding tone in relating with lady colleagues or decide for them in ordering
a menu in restaurants. The tendency to fall out quickly with lady friends is
observed. It takes quite a time to make up with the erstwhile friends
7. Late marriages are shown in cosmic
profile of mama’s boys. Most of them get married in the prime age of 28 to 35
or in some cases in the mid-life of 35 to 42 of years of age
8. Listening to mother always and talking
to her often elicits resentment from girlfriend, partner or wife. They perceive
mama’s boys as undependable anchor
9. At some point in the life, mama’s boy
goes through depression as a result of conflicting interest between his mother and
the current partner because he is just unable to walk away from the emotional
clinging that he has with the mother.
If the
cumulative effect of the disadvantages listed above is unbearable for you, it
is time for you to do a cosmic analysis of body, mind and spirit to find out
corrective measures that must be applied to make your life normal once again.
Muthu Ashraff
Cosmic Adviser
Mobile: +94 777 265677
E-mail: cosmicgems@gmail.com
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