Tuesday, 20 October 2015

Why Marriages are Delayed?



If you have not yet tied the knot, nothing to fret. Trace the reasons for this malady and find out some good remedy. The reasons for delayed marriage are classified into internal and external causes. If you can find the exact reason for the delay then it is easy for you to get the right type of cure for the malady. Read more…
The foremost external reason for delay in marriage is the rapid changes taking place in the environment. Today the lifestyle has changed to such that both boys and girls want to be single until they pass 30 years or so. Most of them believe they had better enjoy life in solo rather than being banded with a spouse. Priority is also changing drastically. In yester years, people got married first and then went for buying houses or flats for them to live together. Today every bachelor and unmarried woman wish to get a dwelling first more than a marriage partner. Cash flow is the third decider now. “Can I sustain the pattern of savings that I have now after I get married” is a question for which people require firm answer.
Internal dimension for delay in marriage has to with your personal cosmics. These are features arising from three areas within you: body, mind and spirit. Physical need satisfaction is the determining cause in the body segment. Quite a number of youngsters feel that they should not tie up with one party but enjoy sexual relations with many as possible. For others sex is only a secondary aspect in need satisfaction, as they tend to engage in sports and other physical activities for contentment. Still for many others adequacy of sexual performance is critical. Due to reasons such as promiscuity, they are unable to perform sexual act at all or only for a limited time. A crippling issue is failure to hold erection on the part of men and frigidity on the part of women.
Mind analysis reveals that, chief causes for delay in marriage is the inter-play of preference and perception. Curiously enough, men are high on preference while women are flagged more on perception. Men pile up lot of preferences over, about to be brides. Beauty, looks, money, family, education, accomplishments and so on. As you see, these are of material and pleasure nature. The contrast in the case of women is much sharper. Their perception of husbands to be hover around love, affection, fidelity, commitment and their acquitting themselves well as lover, husband and father.
Spirit remains the main arbiter. If a prospective husband or wife declines every marriage proposal that comes in line, then there is willful and deliberate attempt on their part. This aspect has nothing to with body or mind. It is how a negative spirit prevails upon men and women to say no to every proposal without any rhyme or reason.  Surprisingly, these people in other situations where decision-making is required, show perfect reasoning and being rational in approach. Functioning of spirit is so subtle, that it even escapes attention of trained psychologists who diagnose recurring denial as kind of mental issue.
In order to solve problem of delayed marriage, it is better for you to do a cosmic analysis involving   body, mind and spirit to find out how your personal cosmics play out. Once you determine the real cause of this malady then it is much easier for you to chart a solution course.
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Muthu Ashraff
Cosmic Adviser
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