Living with
past failure is equally bad as basking on past glory. Though both are similar
in terms of bringing destructive tendencies, past failure haunting you can
retard your progress in family and business life. Here are tips to get out of
the shackles of past happenings.
It is human nature not
to reflect on the past failure because it gives you pain of mind, gives a bad
taste in your mouth, makes you unpleasant and mars your current state of
happiness. That said, you often could not expel these thoughts. It is a catch
22 situation. Neither you can expel it nor do you wish to forget about it. The
logic behind this is simple. The past failure is recorded in your conscious
mind as well as in your unconscious mind. You are supposed to archive old files
in your unconscious mind to be accessed when you need these. However, if these
files crowd your conscious mind then you will find it difficult to forget them.
The only way you can knock off unpleasant happenings is to do step-by step
approach in deleting them.
1. Choose convenient time for you and sit somewhere
you are not disturbed.
2. Start to access your past failure files
from your conscious mind. Realize that what has happened has already happened
and you cannot stop this happening at that time.
3. Switch on the red light. Get the feel
bad factor. Say to yourself: “Yes. It was a mistake. Big failure on my part. I
take full blame. Yes, the failure was
indeed fully recognised. Nevertheless, I will leave this and move out”.
4. Get the amber light on. Say to
yourself: “Let me learn the lessons from this incident. This is not a failure.
It is my learning lessons of immense importance. I know how to prevent such
things happening in the future. I am prepared to get on with my work”. Thereafter,
you shift delete the past failures wholesale.
5. Flash the
green light. Get the feel good factor. Say to yourself: “Oh now I am ready to
move forward in life, career and in business. Past is now finished. The future
is beckoning me. Now I prepare for the future”.
6. In preparing for the future, it is
better to choose a cosmic solution consisting of mixture of gem therapy, colour
therapy, personal branding, change management, behaviour modification and
personality development.
Keep talking
to me.
Muthu Ashraff
Cosmic Adviser
Mobile: +94 777 265677
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